Tuesday, June 7, 2011

*Crickets*

Why the silence???

I know, I haven't blogged in over a month and that's just disastrous. I love to blog. And it just hasn't happened.

Because for one thing, the weather warms up and things get busy. A lame excuse, but it's not really an excuse...it's just the truth.

But even bigger than that, blogging is a little bit of a tightrope for me. You see, there are a lot of blogs out there: "mommy" blogs, sarcastic and snarky blogs, boring and uneventful blogs, opinionated blogs...and, I'm just like, I dunno...I don't want to have a blog that's overly mommy. (BTW - there are some great mommy blogs out there, I'm not knocking them!) I could have a heyday being sarcastic and snarky, but I really try to avoid that (sometimes I let it slip out for laughs, but I do try to avoid it and err on the uplifting side instead). I try to tone down on being overly opinionated or soap-boxy. Sometimes I'd love to share something I'm fired up about spiritually but I don't want to be...what's the right word...ummm...like this blog is a flannel board and my little flannel Jesus is stuck there just nice and so and I'm all perfect. Does that make any sense?? Sometimes I don't want to write something that might be misinterpreted or offend someone, even though that is never my intention. Never, ever do I wish to use this blog as a passive-aggressive outlet to try to drive out a message to someone I have in mind, hoping that they'll see it and get the point.

I don't want to come across as attention-seeking. Lord knows I'm not a fan of that.

So sometimes I just choose to keep my keyboard mouth shut. Some of it is insecurity (does anyone really care what I have to say anyway?). Some of it IS good old fear of man (I don't want to offend anyone...). Much of it is that I DO have a busy baby in the house. :) And sometimes there's something I'm struggling with and either it's not something I want to share with many people at the moment, or sadly enough, if I do share it, then I actually have to uphold my end of it and be accountable to, um, everyone.

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Anyway...I do have things tumbling around in my head that I'd really like to write about...because really, this blog is my journal. It's what's going on in my life, my heart. And at the end of the day, no one has to read it. I choose to make it a public forum rather than password protect it, because who knows who might need to read what God has put on my heart to say, even one time. He works in mysterious ways, even in the blogosphere.

Some of the things on my mind lately:

Mommy guilt...
Pornography....
Modesty........
Being counter-cultural....
Marriage.....
Facebook.........
Being real......
Being frugal!!!........
My identity.......

.....and at some point (hopefully soon!) I'll process all of the above (and many more!) enough to put pen to paper. So don't give up!!! I shall write more soon. So stay tuned.

BTW - this is totally unrelated to anything having to do with...anything, really, but it made me laugh:

Picture me, sitting on the kitchen floor eating a bowl of popcorn, with this audience:

To my left


And to my right


Seriously, the look on Levi's face!!!! hahahahahaha!!!!

6 comments:

Kelly said...

LOL!!! I LOVE his face!!! Its like he's saying "Mine??? Where's mine?? Have any for me? Huh? Huh?? Why I can't have none???" Thanks for sharing. I look forward to seeing you all soon. Personally...I thouroughly enjoy reading your blogs. They are interesting, thought provoking, and REAL. Thanks for sharing all that you do. I love you!

CA Mommy said...

Ah, you are back. I was missing you and your blog. You are, as always, perceptive and insightful, and I love when you share your thoughts...(deep thoughts and bon mot's?) I am always grateful for your perspective and think you are someone very special. Love to you, CA Mommy

CA Mommy said...

And I love the pictures of the salivating baby and dog!!

JAN said...

Your words always put a smile on my face as well as one in my heart. You are a MIGHTY woman of GOD. The difference I feel between a woman of GOD and a MIGHTY woman is when we (man/woman) speak. You see many people are saved, as they have something to share from their hearts they think about, reason about it, then speak. But a MIGHTY woman of GOD allows THE SPIRIT to flow from the heart, not to our thoughts but out. You are a MIGHTY WOMAN. Such a BEAUTIFUL boy! Be Blessed!

The DePriest's said...

I love reading your blog. My previous comment on your last post - I meant to post from my new blog. Your thoughts are so much like mine. You are a blessing to me - even though we've never met :)

Matt & Lauren said...

Jenny, Just spent some time with you and your blog.:-) I also FINALLY wrote back via e-mail that you sent WAY BACK IN FEB!!! Such good thoughts you share. I was esp. interested in your cutting back blog. We are in the same stage right now and loved all your ideas. I am glad to know that I'm not the only one out there doing what we can to save a bit. I love you girl! Hugs,
Lauren